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1、ted 演讲稿中英文对照小编今天推荐给大家的是 ted 演讲稿中英文对照， 仅供 参考，希望对大家有用。关注网获得更多内容。ted 演讲稿中英文对照Hi. Im here to talk to you about the importance of praise, admiration and thank you, and having it be specific and genuine.嗨。我在这里要和大家谈谈 向别人表达赞美，倾佩和 谢意的重要性。 并使它们听来真诚，具体。And the way I got interested in this was, I noticed in mys
2、elf, when I was growing up, and until about a few years ago, that I would want to say thank you to someone, I would want to praise them, I would want to take in their praise of me and Id just stop it. And I asked myself, why? I felt shy, I felt embarrassed. And then my question became, am I the only
3、 one who does this? So, I decided to investigate.之所以我对此感兴趣 是因为我从我自己的成长中注意 到 几年前， 当我想要对某个人说声谢谢时， 当我想要赞 美他们时， 当我想接受他们对我的赞扬， 但我却没有说出 口。 我问我自己， 这是为什么 ? 我感到害羞， 我感到尴尬。接着我产生了一个问题 难道我是唯一一个这么做的人吗所以我决定做些探究。Im fortunate enough to work in the rehab facility, so I get to see people who are facing life and death
4、with addiction. And sometimes it comes down to something as simple as, their core wound is their father died without ever saying hes proud of them. But then, they hear from all the family and friends that the father told everybody else that he was proud of him, but he never told the son. Its because
5、 he didnt know that his son needed to hear it.我非常幸运的在一家康复中心工作， 所以我可以看到 那些因为上瘾而面临生与死的人。 有时候这一切可以非常 简单地归结为， 他们最核心的创伤来自于他们父亲到死都 未说过“他为他们而自豪” 。 但他们从所有其它家庭或朋友 那里得知 他的父亲告诉其他人为他感到自豪， 但这个父亲 从没告诉过他儿子。 因为他不知道他的儿子需要听到这一 切。So my question is, why dont we ask for the things that we need? I know a gentleman, marri
6、ed for 25 years, whos longing to hear his wife say, Thank you for being the breadwinner, so I can stay home with the kids, but wont ask. I know a womanwhos good at this. She, once a week, meets with her husband and says, Id really like you to thank me for all these things I did in the house and with
7、 the kids. And he goes, Oh, this is great, this is great. And praise really does have to be genuine, but she takes responsibility for that. And a friend of mine, April, who Ive had since kindergarten, she thanks her children for doing their chores. And she said, Why wouldnt I thank it, even though t
8、heyre supposed to do it?因此我的问题是，为什么我们不索求我们需要的东西呢 我认识一个结婚 25 年的男士 渴望听到他妻子说， “感谢 你为这个家在外赚钱，这样我才能在家陪伴着孩子， ” 但他 从来不去问。 我认识一个精于此道的女士。 每周一次，她 见到丈夫后会说， “我真的希望你为我对这个家和孩子们 付出的努力而感谢我。 ” 他会应和到“哦，真是太棒了，真 是太棒了。 ” 赞扬别人一定要真诚， 但她对赞美承担了责 任。 一个从我上幼儿园就一直是朋友的叫 April 的人， 她 会感谢她的孩子们做了家务。 她说：“为什么我不表示感谢 呢，即使他们本来就要做那些事情 ?”S
9、o, the question is, why was I blocking it? Whywere other people blocking it? Why can I say, Ill take my steak medium rare, I need size six shoes, but I wont say, Would you praise me this way? And its because Im giving you critical data about me. Im telling you where Im insecure. Im telling you where
10、 I need your help. And Im treating you, my inner circle, like youre the enemy. Because what can you do with that data? You could neglect me. You could abuse it. Or you could actually meet my need.因此我的问题是，为什么我不说呢 ? 为什么其它人不说 呢? 为什么我能说： “我要一块中等厚度的牛排，我需要 6号尺寸的鞋子， ” 但我却不能说： “你可以赞扬我吗 ?” 因 为这会使我把我的重要信息与你分享
11、。 会让我告诉了你我 内心的不安。 会让你认为我需要你的帮助。 虽然你是我最 贴心的人， 我却把你当作是敌人。 你会用我托付给你的重 要信息做些什么呢 ? 你可以忽视我。 你可以滥用它。 或者 你可以满足我的要求。And I took my bike into the bike store- I love this - same bike, and theyd do something called truing the wheels. The guy said, You know, when you true the wheels, its going to make the bike so
12、 much better. I get the same bike back, and theyve taken all the little warps out of those same wheels Ive had for two and a half years, and my bike is like new. So, Im going to challenge all of you. I want you to true your wheels: be honest about the praise that you need to hear. What do you need t
13、o hear? Go home to your wife - go ask her, what does she need? Go hometo your husband - what does he need? Go home and ask those questions, and then help the people around you.我把我的自行车拿到车行 - 我喜欢这么做 - 同样的自 行车，他们会对车轮做整形。 那里的人说：“当你对车轮做 整形时， 它会使自行车变成更好。 ” 我把这辆自行车拿回 来， 他们把有小小弯曲的铁丝从轮子上拿走 这辆车我用了 2 年半，现在还像新的
14、一样。 所以我要问在场的所有人， 我 希望你们把你们的车轮整形一下： 真诚面对对你们想听到 的赞美。 你们想听到什么呢 ? 回家问问你们的妻子，她想 听到什么 ? 回家问问你们的丈夫，他想听到什么 ? 回家问问 这些问题，并帮助身边的人实现它们。And its simple. And why should we care about this? We talk about world peace. How can we have world peace with different cultures, different languages? I think it starts househo
15、ld by household, under the same roof. So, lets make it right in our own backyard. And I want to thank all of you in the audience for being great husbands, great mothers, friends, daughters, sons. And maybesomebodys never said that to you, but youve done a really, really good job. And thank you for being here, just showing up and changing the world with your ideas.非常简单。 为什么要关心这个呢 ? 我们谈论世界和平。 我们怎么用不同的文化，不同的语言来保持世界和平 ? 我想 要从每个小家庭开始。 所以让我们在家里就把这件事情做 好。 我想要感谢所有在这里的人们 因为你们是好丈夫，好 母亲， 好伙伴，好女儿和好儿子。 或许有些人从没跟你们 说过 但你们已经做得非常非常得出色了。 感谢你们来到这 里， 向世界显示着你们的智慧，并用它们改变着世界。
