Psychological Counseling Dialog(C: Counselor V Visitor )C (smiling)Nice to meet you! I’m happy to do something for you!V: Well , thank you! I’m a student in Grade Three in a high school. It’sthe last year for me to preparing for the College Entrance Examination. But I always feel down recently, and I don’twant to do anything when I feel very bad, so I skip some lessons. While skipping lessons makes me feel ashamed and regretful. These make me can’tconcentrated on my study.C: That is to say, your black mood makes you unsatisfied with you study. Actually it ’s common for students of your grade to feel depressed. Some other ones also reflect they don ’twant to go to class. But they always stick at having class, concerned for being criticized by parents and teachers. (generalization)V: Er Maybe my emotion changes too fast. What makes me feel depressed now is the time I feel depressed is longer, while the time I feel happy is shorter.C: So you still have time feeling good. It ’smerely not longer than before.(focus on positive information, ignore the negative)V: yeahC: What do you most hope for now then?(question presuppose, suggested the counseling goal is to change)V: I hope I could go back to the excellent fettle of study.C: (delightedly) Then, you used to be in a very good studying state. Could you tellme when you felt good of study fettle and how you made it(lead visitor to focus on his successful experience, improve his sense of personal control)V: When the term started. At that time, I was always in peace and could精品文库concentrated on my study, I felt confident of myself, even for my poor grade in class. I m’ sure that I could catch up with others. So I could study systematically. C: what did you do else to keep your good emotion state?(continue to focus on successful experience)V: I studied hard, and didn ’tcompare with others. So I could keep peace inside myself.C: You have excellent study ability looking from this perspective. (approvingly)In addition, you focused more on ego, target and proceeds. These two factors madeyou feel good.(praise visitor to promote his confidence) Then, do you feel that youhave the ability to change your current state?(learn visitor’scurrent situation)V: Yes. I still feel very confident of myself(smile).Although in bad state, I could keep better-than-average level. I could do better if I change current situation.C: yeah, I believe you could.You said that you would skip lessons when you feeldepressed. What do you think makes you feel ashamed and regretful?(specific technology)V: I missed what the teacher taught my classmates. When I went back to class, I did not know what to do. I feel that I was wasting time. This made me more depressed and nervous .C: Would you feel better when you skip lessons？V: it merely made me feel better when I m’absent. I felt more depressed when coming back to classroom.C: It seems skipping lessons couldn’tsolve your problem? What do you thinkcould settle your problem better? (guide visitor think in positive direction)欢迎下载 2精品文库The visitor fell in silence for a long time without saying one word.C: It ’sunderstandable to skip lessons when you’re in bad mood. But the followed remorse is unnecessary, it has negative effect on you subsequent study.V: you mean not to blame myself after skipping lessons?C: Yes. I mean that it’s better not to blame yourself. But is it enough only not to blame yourself? Could you think you still need to do something else?V: Yeah, should continue to study! But I always feel at sea about what I should do concretely.C then what do you think you should do now at present?V: Devise a study plan!C: Yes, I agree with you!(very enjoyed)V: (looking at the counselor for a while)oh, I know. But I used to do like that, while I couldn’tfinish it because of bad emotion.C: What would happen if you didn’tfinish your plan?V: I felt more awful, for the College Entrance Examination is approaching.C: then, what led your awful emotion?V: Maybe it is comparing with others, especially when thinking of some of my classmates would go to famous universities while my state was so bad! Thismade me even more depressed!C: You mean you will feel better without comparing yourself with others, right ? It is just like your way to study when you felt very good.V: yeah(giving an expressive nod)欢迎下载 3精品文库C: Comparison with others is only a method to encourage yourself to study harder. But now the comparison becomes an obstacle for your study. What should you do to overcome it ?V: try not to compare with my classmates, I guess.C: Yeah, good answer!Your ultimate goal is to improve yourself, you shouldn ’t focus attention on comparison.V: Um, got it!。