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1、Friends for Life,Free template from ,2,Pre-reading questions,1. How do you define “friends” and “friendship? 2. How to choose a friend? 3. What is needed to make friendship grow, blossom and last? 4. Will a friendship end?,Free template from ,3,What is a friend ?,1. A person whom one knows, likes an
2、d trusts. 2. A person with whom one is allied in a struggle or cause; comrade. 3. One who supports, sympathizes with, or patronizes a group. 4. An acquaintance.,Free template from ,4,What is friendship?,Friendship is an in-depth relationship. Friendship is comfortable and relaxed. Friendship require
3、s meeting the needs of both friends.,Free template from ,5,Friendship Proverbs,“Books and friends should be few but good.“ “A friend in need is a friend indeed.“ - Latin Proverb “A hedge between keeps friendship green.“ “To have a friend, be a friend.”,Free template from ,6,“The death of a friend is
4、 equivalent to the loss of a limb.“ - German Proverb “Life without a friend is like death without a witness.“ - Spanish Proverb “A cheerful friend is like a sunny day spreading brightness all around.“,Free template from ,7,International Friendship Day,August 6 is International Friendship Day for 200
5、6, time to recognize your friends and their contribution to your life. Friendship helps to bring peace and positivism to the globe - a great reason to celebrate!,Free template from ,8,Toxic/harmful or helpful?,Entering into a friendship opens the door for hurt and harm; a harmful friend or a toxic f
6、riendship can be one of lifes hardest relationship tribulations to forgive and forget. Toxic friends often come back to haunt you for a long time.,Free template from ,9,Harmful friends,The person who makes use of others. The Betrayer . A fault finder. The Promise Breaker. A Gossip. The Self-centered
7、 Person . The Competitor .,Free template from ,10,Ways of Maintaining friendship !,Be a good listener; refrain from offering advice or moralizing. Respect your friends point of view. Different personalities can complement each other; it isnt always necessary to see eye to eye. Never betray a trust.
8、Trust, when violated, can ruin even the best friendship.,Free template from ,11,Support and praise your friends; ignore their failures and imperfections. Never resent a friends success. Instead, strive to admire her achievements.,Free template from ,12,Flexibility is always important for maintaining
9、 friendships. Be understanding when your friend has a last minute change in plans. Learn to accept “Im sorry to cancel, but we will have another time together Sunday.“,Free template from ,13,When paths begin to separate (you are married; he isnt or you have a baby; she is still childless) at forks i
10、n the road of life, that is the most important time of all to stay in touch with friends.,Free template from ,14,Friends are on a seesaw. In a healthy relationship, friends are equals. Not 50/50 every time, of course, but with a true, lasting friendship it always evens out in the end. Best friends r
11、equire one-on-one contact to survive. Telephone calls and getting together are musts for best friends to continue.,Free template from ,15,Friendships Do End!,Many people expect that their friends will always be there. They expect friendship to last forever. Yet, friendships end and friends part comp
12、any everyday. Unfortunately, even the best maintained friendships can end.,Free template from ,16,Many end because of a change in personality or lifestyle when friends just drift apart and fade away with time. There is a retreat from self-disclosure and seeking out each others company. Avoidance beg
13、ins. The friendship slowly loses importance and finally disappears.,Free template from ,17,The biggest threat to a friendship is change. Regardless of why, when, or how friendships end, there is always some pain of loss. When nothing can be done to mend the friendship, it is important to grieve and
14、feel the pain fully. Then move on to enhance another friendship or build entirely new friendships.,Free template from ,18,Structural Analysis,Part 1 ( Para 1-2) Introduction The author raises a common problem and supplies a psychological definition. Part 2( Para 3-4) Discuss friendship within family
15、 ties. Part 3( Para 5-8) It points out the significance of friendship outside kinship ties.,Free template from ,19,Part 4( Para 9-11) Discuss the friendship between opposite sexes. Part 5( Para 12-13) How to fix a broken friendship. Part 6( Para 14-15) The authors friendship with her grandchildren.,Free template from ,20,Part 1,1. What is the definition of “friend” by psychologists? 2.
