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1、Interpersonal Relationship in ChinaYu Tingting Qi Miao Wei XingcaiBackground and general informationInterpersonal RelationshipRelationship in china is quite different from that in western countries.The Chinese interpersonal relationship is the most special one in the world.RelationshipLife stylewest
2、ernChineseInterpersonal RelationshipIn China, you need to rely on relationships, no matter what you want to do.Origin Interpersonal relationship in China is closely related to the features of Chinas history and tradition. Predestined relationship A predetermined interpersonal relationship in Chinese
3、 view“Yuan”Traditional concept of destiny (天命观)Basis of Chinese interpersonal relationship In China, when people meet others, they spend much time asking for others information. So they can make sure who is senior, who is superior.Authoritarianism This kind of unfair is the ethics of Chinese people.
4、滴水之恩当涌泉相 报“Renqing” The rule of “renqing” in Chinese society are as fellows: “If you have received a drop of beneficence from other people, you should return to them a fountain of beneficence”. You helped me, and I owe you one The exchange of gifts In China, human relationship is an exchange behavio
5、r.礼尚往来，往而不来，非礼也；来而不往 ，亦非礼也。-礼记 Back doorWhen Chinese people want to deal with something, some first think about the back door rather than the usual way.“Renqing”Treat Westerners eat for the health; Chinese eat for the friendship. Dutch treatment is the stingy behavior in China, is unfavorable to the
6、 friends solidarity and is unfavorable to keeping the harmonious .Treat Chinese dont go dutch is not merely a kind of folkway and custom, but it is a repayment way, a way to express emotion, even is probably a kind of stratagem.“Keqi” Behavior of guest “polite”, “courteous”, “modest”, “humble”, “und
7、erstanding”, “considerate” and “well- manned” Politeness, or “keqi”, is basic principle observed by the Chinese in their everyday communication.Folk adages:家和万事兴以和为贵天时地利人和Harmony is the most important factor of Chinese interpersonal relationship.HarmonyTypes and characteristics of chinese relationsh
8、ipsChinese culture views the relationships of individuals in strikingly different ways than those to which most Westerners are accustomed. China is a huge country with over a billion people and a very ancient culture, and it has developed a tradition of social interaction that has been insulated fro
9、m the rest of the world for centuries.Types of chinese international relationship1.Family and Community2.Romantic Relationships3.Personal Space and Autonomy4.Reciprocity(互惠互利)1.Family and CommunityChinese culture views the individual as first and foremost an element within a larger whole. This view
10、leads to attitudes that value connections and obligations more highly than personal freedom. This traditional attitude originates in a culture, country and society that was agrarian and stable for thousands of years. 1.Family and CommunityWhile a Westerner might celebrate an individuals escape from
11、family ties, a traditional Chinese family would expect any member of that family to contribute to its overall well-being, even if the individual lived far away or hadnt seen the family for years. Nothing is important than going back home and having a family reunion dinner(年夜饭)1.Family and CommunityC
12、hinese people attach great importance to Mid-Autumn Festival, “moon cake” symbolizes family reunion.2.Romantic RelationshipsRomantic relationships are heavily affected by views of family and community in Chinese culture.Because of the importance of both family and the familys relationship to the lar
13、ger community, it is very important that a romantic relationship be with an appropriate partner who is a member of an appropriate family. 2.Romantic RelationshipsThe most obvious is the relationship between mother- and daughter.Mother-and daughter have each lived in different families, have their ow
14、n life background, habits. Now they live together, which has a process of gradual understanding and mutual adaptation. If maladjustment, they can not accept, will be tensions, conflicts have arisen.2.Romantic RelationshipsChina has a lot of drama reflects the publics concern, and the solution is a w
15、ide range.婆婆媳妇妇小姑 麻辣婆媳 婆家娘家 媳妇妇的美好时时代 王贵贵与安娜 婆媳过过招100回and so on3.Personal Space and AutonomyOne of the defining characteristics of modern Western liberal democracies is the celebration of the individual, a tradition that results in people expecting large amounts of personal space and autonomy. Chine
16、se people also value autonomy, but within the bounds of interpersonal duties. Family members feel that they have not only the right but the obligation to be involved in the activities and decisions of other family members.3.Personal Space and AutonomyA young Westerner who was deciding on a university or a job might be annoyed at receiving opinions and directives
