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1、iiiADIAGNOSTICSTUDYOFWIVESDESERTEDBYNRISM.K.JABBISeniorFellowCOUNCILFORSOCIALDEVELOPMENT53LODIESTATENEWDELHI110003ivCONTENTSAcknowledgementiChapterI:Introduction11.1Problem11.2ReviewofLiterature21.3NeedfortheStudy6ChapterII:Background72.1Backdrop72.2EconomicDevelopment82.3SocialDevelopment82.4Presen
2、tSituation92.5OutMigration11ChapterIII:ology143.1Objectives143.2ology143.3Sample153.4153.5Tools153.6DataCollectionandFieldwork163.7FieldProblems163.8DataAnalysis18ChapterIV:FindingsandAnalysis194.1GeneralObservations194.2FindingsoftheStudy204.2.1Socio-economicProfile234.3ReasonsforSuchMarriages254.4
3、ReasonsforBreakupofSuchMarriages27ChapterV:CopingRehabilitationandSafeguards305.1CopingwiththeProblem305.2RehabilitationoftheDesertedWives325.3SecuringJusticeandProvidingSafeguards33v5.4RecommendationsforRehabilitationandSecuringJustice35forDesertedWomen5.4.1RecommendationsforRehabilitation365.4.2Im
4、plementingSafeguards375.4.3LegalRecommendations385.4.4SafeguardsthroughSocialawareness40APPENDICESAppendixI:DistrictwiseNumberofCases1995-200443AppendixII:ResearchTeam44AppendixIII:CaseStudies45viACKNOWLEDGEMENTSIamverygratefultoMs.RevaNayyarSecretaryDepartmentofWomenandChildDevelopmentMinistryofHum
5、anResourceDevelopmentGOIforsponsoringADiagnosticStudyofWivesDesertedbyNRIs.Itprovidedmeanopportunitytostudythisproblemfromclosequartersandtogotoitsroots.IthankShriR.N.KalsiaSecretarySocialSecurityDepartmentofWomenandchildDevelopmentGovt.ofPunjabforhiscooperationinthestudy.IalsothankShriD.S.Bainswhow
6、asearlierinchargeoftheNRIDepartmentandShriN.S.KalsiCommissionerNRIsandSecretaryInationTechnologyGovt.ofPunjab.ThanksareduetotheDirectorGeneralPoliceDepartmentGovt.ofPunjabfororganisingapreliminaryworkshopinChandigarhandinHoshiarpurandforprovidingthedataregardingthenumberofcasesregisteredandFIRsfiled
7、.IthankShriD.K.TiwariDistrictCommissionerofHoshiarpurandShriA.K.GuptaDistrictCommissionerJalandharfortheircooperationandlogisticsupporttotheteam.ShriRamPrakashDSPHoshiarpurandShriP.K.RaiSpCityIIJalandharwereveryhelpfulinprovidingustheFIRs.NoamountofthankstoS.AmarjitSinghHamrolSecretaryRedCrossSociet
8、yHoshiarpurdistrictcansufficefortheexcellentarrangementsnotonlyforourstayandtravelbutalsoinorganisingourmeetingswiththeofficials.Hisofficestaffwasalwaysreadytohelpusinanywaywewanted.IamgratefultoS.AmrikSinghSainiMs.DaljitKaurandMs.KirtiSinghalllawyerswhogaveustheirvaluablesuggestions.IthankProf.Much
9、kundDubeyPresidentoftheCouncilforSocialDevelopmentforhisvaluablesuggestionsonthereport.IamgratefultoDr.N.J.KurianDirectorCSDforthelogisticsupportprovidedbytheCouncil.IacknowledgethehelpofShriR.S.Somiforprovidinglogisticsupportandmakingallnecessaryarrangementsakingavailablethefinancesintime.Iowethecu
10、tionoftheprojecttomyresearchteamespeciallyMs.AshaLepchaallofwhomworkedreallyhardwithoutcomplainingofanyinconveniencethattheymusthavefeltandwerealwayswithasmileontheirface.CreditisalsoduetoviiourdriverShriAmanwhowasverypunctualandwillingtotakeustoalltheplaceswehadtovisitandknewalltheroutes.Andlastbut
11、nottheleastIamindebtedtoallthegirlswhoweresobraveinthefaceofsuchgraveproblemsandtheirparentswhowillinglyspoketoustoprovideuswithalltheinationthatweaskedfor.Withouttheircooperationthestudycouldnothavebeendone.Theparentsoftheboysaswellastheintermediarieswhohadnegotiatedthemarriageswhomwemetwerealsohel
12、pful.November2005M.K.JabbiSeniorFellowviiiCHAPTERIINTRODUCTIONModerntransportandcommunicationsystemhasreducedtheentireworldintoaglobalvillage.Distancesarenolongerdaunting.Theydonotactasbarrierstosocialinteractionsevenamongthedistantlylocatedsocieties.Thecommunicationsystemhasvastlyimprovedandpeoplea
13、rejustaphonecallawayfromeachother.Thishasopenedthefloodgatesoflarge-scalemigrationfromIndiatoplacesofopportunitiestoearnlivelihoodandimprovetheeconomicconditions.Howeverthemigrantsdocarrytheirstrongfamilyandsocialtraditionsalongwiththem.Immediatesocialenvironmentsofthehostadoptedsocietiesalsoaffectt
14、hembutgradually.Inasituationlikethisthemigrantsreturntotheirrootsandthelandoftheirforefatherseetingmostoftheirsocialneedsparticularlyarriages.Mostmalessettledabroadprefertomarrygirlsfrombackhome.OtherssuccumbunderfamilypressuretoenterintoarrangedmarriageswithgirlsfromIndia.Mostofthetimetheboyandgirl
15、asinarrangedIndianmarriageshavenevermetbeforemarriage.Thisleadstoveryunsavouryanddisastrousconsequencesgivingwaytomanyasocialproblem.1.1THEPROBLEMManyIndianwomenwhoenterintoarrangedmarriageswithnon-residentIndiansareleduptoagardenpathbythehusbandsfamilywhoprojectrosyandmisleadingpicturesabouttheirin
16、comeandstatus.Thegirlsfamilyneitherhastheresourcesnorisinapositiontoverifytheirexaggeratedclaims.Thegreathurryinwhichsuchmarriagesarealisedleaveshardlyanytimetoverifytheveracityoftheclaims.Sometimestheboysmaybealreadymarriedwhichmayormaynotbeintheixknowledgeoftheboysfamily.Greedofdowrymaybeanotherreasononthepartoftheboystohastenthemarriage.Themotivationofthegirlsfamilytofindanon-residentgroomispartlytheperceivedhighandglamorousstatusofthegroomthoughpretentiousandpartlytheirurgeforanopenin
