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1、Unit1PartI-A87,80,53,48,24,17Script:ThePorterFamilyMrWilliamPorterisveryold.Heis87.AndMrsCatherinePorteris80.MrPorterisfromWales.JohnPorterandMaryarebrotherandsister.JohnPorteris53andheisalawyer.HiswifeSusanis48,andsheisanarchitect.JamesPorterandJoanLeearecousins.JamesPorteris24andJoanLeeis17.PartI-
2、B1. spendingspecialtimetogether.2. specific,complain,request,praise.3. fatigue,insecurities,foxhole,strikingout,protect.4. distant5. allmarriages,Worktogetherounderstand6. Respect,danger,professional,physical,verbal7. Understand,winPartI-C40,excel,domesticargument,losingwin-win,lose-lose,win,agift,r
3、eturnsargueover,arent,who,incontrol,fear,didntneed,oughtnotto,couldnt,triedto,destroy,marriagelove,loved,secure,discover,garden,cultivate,themostprecious,ownself,bloom.obtain,ourpartner,lovedandrespected,control.PartII-AA21. similarsocialbackgrounds.2. thesameraceorsameethnicbackground.3. thesamerel
4、igion.A3Japan/9.2%/arrangedmarriages3%/betweenblacksandwhitesManypeopleinWesterncultureschoosetheirownwivesandhusbands.Inmanyothercountries,spouseareoftenchosenbytheparents.InChinaandJapanbeforethiscentury(20thcentury),upper-classmarriageswerearrangedbytheoldermales.InmanyculturesintheMiddleEast,Asi
5、a,andpre-industrialEurope,themansfamilynegotiatedabridepricewiththewomansfamily;themansfamilywasexpectedtopayit.InHinduIndia,thebridesfamilypaidagroomspricetothefamilyoftheman.Thesecustomsareweakening;forintance,only9.2percentofJapanesemarriagesarenowarranged.Whatarethecriteriaforchoosingmates?Mostm
6、arriages-whetherarrangedbyfamiliesoroccurringfrompersonalattractionorlove-arebasedonsimilarsocialbackgrounds.Inotherwords,themanandthewomancomefromthesamesocialclass(orelseaclassthatisonlyslightlyhigherorslightlower).AmongmanypeopleinEgypt,keymembersofthemansfamilymustgotothefamilyofthewomanandpropo
7、semarriage.Thesefamilymembersmustbeabletoshowthatthemansfamilyisatleastofthesamesocialclassasthewomanandthatacertainamountofmoneyexiststoallowthemarriagetogoforward.Havingthesameraceorthesameethnicbackgroundisthesecondmaincriterionformarriagethroughouttheworld.IntheU.S,.Wheretherearemanydifferentrac
8、es,only3percentofallmarriagesarebetweenblacksandwhites,meaningthattheracesarestilllargelyseparateinmarriage.Inmanycountries,marriageisalsobasedonthewomanandmanhavingthesamereligion;thisisathirdcommoncriterionforchoosingamate.Incultureinwhichreligionisverystrongvalue,marriageswouldoftennottakeplaceif
9、therewerereligiousdifferences.PartII-B1. physicalappearance;2. whatsomebodylookslike,lookbeyondthephysicalappearance3. thehighpercentageofdivorces.4. fallinglovewithsomebody,lovingsomebodyScript:Whatdoyouthinkitisthatattractspeopletoeachother,thatmakespeoplewanttobetogether?Ithinkthatperhapsunfortun
10、atelyintheinitialstagesitsthephysicalappearancethatattracts.Ithinkunlessyoufindsomebodyattractive,unlesstheressomethingaboutthem-itcouldonlyperhapsbethewaytheysmileortheylaugh,oratwinkleintheireye,orthewayofacurlfallsovertheirforehead.Butsomethinglikethathastomakeyouinterestedenoughtofindoutmoreabou
11、tthatperson,unlessthatsthereIthinkyoujustdontbother.SoinitiallyphysicalattractionIthinkisallimportant.Whydoyousayunfortunately?Becauseinfactitshouldntbewhatsomebodylookslikethatisimportant.Youshouldbeabletolookbeyondhephysicalappearanceandseewhatsortofapersonheorsheis,whethertheyareselfishorselfless
12、,whethertheyarekind,caring.ButIthinkinitiallyyouarenotbotheredwiththat.Thatcomeperhapslater.Inpopsongsandmagazinesandnewspapersandsonon,theideaoffallingloveinsalwaysemphasized,sopeoplehavethisideathatyouhavetofallinlove.Doyouthinkthisismisleadingforpeople?Doyouthinkpeopleexpectsomethingthatinfactdoe
13、sntexist?Yes,Ido.InfactIthinkwecanprobablylaytheblameforthehighpercentageofdivorce-itsathirdIthinknow,isntit?Ithinkoneinthreepeoplegetdivorced.ProbablyasfarasIcanseeit,thereasonisthattheygointomarriageorintoarelationshipwithaveryromanticviewoflovewhichIthinkhasbeencreatedbythepopsongs,byallthelovest
14、ores,bytheBarbaraCartlandnovels,etc.,thatyoungpeopleread.Really,youmeetsomeone,youfallinlove,andthatsit.,itsthebeginning,theylivehappilyevenafter.AndIthinkthatstheproblem,becausepeoplejustexpectthat,anditsnotlikethat.Sowhatisit,doyouthink,thatreallysustainsarelationship,thatkeepsarelationshipgoing?W
15、ell,Ithinkyouhavetodifferentiatebetweenfallinginlovewithsomebody,whichIseeasmoresuperficial,andlovingsomebody,whichIseeasadeeperemotionandonethatperhapslasts.Fallinginloveissuperficialattraction,beingattractedtosomebodyphysically,havingfuntogether,whereaslovingsomebodyIthinkisanemotionthatgrows,itco
16、meswithsharedexperiences,perhapsenjoyingdoingthesamethingstogether,sharedhobbies,sharedinterests,sufferingtogetheraswell,goingthroughthebadtimes,helpingeachother,supportingeachother.Ithinkallthatneedstimetogrow,andIdcallthatlove,andIthinkthatswhatmakesarelationshiplast.PartII-Coneofthebiggestdecisionstheywillmakeinlife,asthejust-rightwifeforhim,definitionofwhatthejus
