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1、Confucianism and My FamilyAbstract: Confucianism is the dominate culture in ancient China. About two thousand years ago,it was firstly put forward. And in the long history of China, it had been developing and completing, and gradually had an great influence not only on our countrys politics but also
2、 dominated the nations culture, affected the societys custom and the family life. Still, in todays China, Confucianism has a powerful influence.Keywords: Confucianism, family, influence,custom Confucianism emphasizes the individual is subordinate to the group, and does not encourage people to show t
3、heir own personality, such is the Golden Rule. In todays society, people still follow this idea, most people will not behave conspicuous just as they want in front of others. On one had, this suppresses peoples personality, but on the other hand, the makes people have a stronger belief on collectivi
4、sm and had more consideration for others and groups.Second,It told that people should be skilled,educated,hardworking ,thrifty,modest, patient,and persevering. This has a great influence on the virtues that Chinese people hold, they are always considered as hardworking and modest. In Confucianism, t
5、here is a strong belief in rank. People should hold a high respect for people who has a higher status on knowledge,politics or other aspects. So it was impolite for students to question their teachers, just as it was impolite for children to question their parents. Such may be one of the reason that
6、 causes the differences between Chinese class and western classes. In Chinese class, the atmosphere is more quiet, and students mainly use listening to the teacher to learn , and not accustomed to discussing and questioning.1. Good effect on my family1. Filial obedience and politeness makes my famil
7、y more harmonious Confucianism instructs people to be filial to their parents. Parents bring up children painfully, so the children should feel grateful and love their parents.if he/she dont, social public will condemn he/she, because he/she act as an animal. Confucianism thinks if a person is not f
8、ilial, he definitely is not a good person. Filialness is the most important one in all moral character to evaluate a person. I think it is a right statement. If a person even dont love his/her parents, which one you can count on him to love? Several years ago, my grandmother passed away. That days I
9、 saw my parents tear, and I recalled my grandmother had given me so much happiness in my life. I think love is one kind of noble emotion. It can makes the family more harmonious.We had a very old story, which told a boy sharing some pears with his family members. In china, Everyone knows the story.
10、It told us that self-effacing is good virtue, because everyone love the person who is polite and modest. My father is this type of person. He shares his good things with his friends, like good wine and Cigarette. I was taught be polite no matter where I am.2. Love and Humaneness Mengzi, a saint of C
11、onfucianism, once said: everyone has the sense of commiserate. He thinks no person is bad. To be a saint just need to accomplish ourselves. Wanting to enjoy others love, you should love others first. I think loving a person is not only helping him/her, but also feeling his/her feeling. When I was yo
12、ung , my mother always told me that you should show your love and humaneness to the weak , they need you help ,so when I saw the bagger in the street , I will give him/her some money , or whenever came across someone was in trouble , I will not mean to give them a hand .Humaneness is an important st
13、andard of being a Confucian. It makes us pay more attention to the misery other people suffered or is suffering and try our best to feel and help.3. Moral evaluation makes us pay more attention to the advancing of our moral level Confucius once said: morality and justice is gentlemans characteristic
14、s. My mother told me: dont let other people jab your backbone. The meaning of my mothers words is that dont do bad things to cause other people abuse you behind you. You should pay attention to build your reputation. There is a famous motto of Confucius: when we see man of worth, we should think of
15、equaling them; when we see man of contrary character, we should turn inwards and examine ourselves. I think if everyone in the world truly acts as this motto say, not only our country will be harmonious, but also our world will be a paradise. My father told me that you should be calm when you are in
16、 trouble , Live in harmony with others , solve the problem by force is not a good way , we need to present the facts, reason things out, and persuade through reasoning. 2. Negative effect on my family1. parents disrespect their children opinionIt is a common phenomenon in china that parents dont allow their children talk back at their criticism. It existed in my family also . My parents always said butt out when we adult are talk
