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1、8 Reasons to Stop Waiting for Approval8个理由提醒你：别再期待别人的认可One of the greatest freedoms is simply not caring what everyone else thinks of you. Sometimes you need to step outside, get some air, and remind yourself of who you are and what you want to be. The best thing you can do is follow your heart. Tak
2、e risks. Dont just accept the safe and easy choices because youre afraid of what others will think, or afraid of what might happen. If you do, nothing will ever happen. Dont let small minds convince you that your dreams are too big. They arent.Starting today, stop waiting for approval. Heres why:You
3、 only get one life to pursue the dreams that make you come alive. It is better to be failing (and learning) at doing something you love, rather than succeeding at doing something you hate. So take chances on behalf of what you believe in. Fail until you succeed. Make sacrifices and step out beyond t
4、he safety of your comfort zone over and over again. Face your fears with courage and passion. Keep your word and hold true to your vision until it comes to life. Read Quitter.Someone elses approval is just another opinion. Never let someones opinion become your reality. Never sacrifice who you are,
5、or who you aspire to be, because someone else has a problem with it. Love who you are inside and out, and keep pushing forward. No one else has the power to make you feel small unless you give them that power. You are the only one who can create your dreams and happiness.The only opinion of you that
6、 really matters is your own. In life, the thing that is really hard and really amazing is giving up on the desire to be perfect in the eyes of others, and beginning the journey of becoming your true self. So let your love flow freely. Because what you love determines your dreams, your dreams determi
7、ne your actions, and your actions determine your destiny.Some people will never give you their approval anyway. Do not let the negative opinions of others destroy your inner peace. There are two kinds of people those who are a drain on your energy and creative force, and those who give you energy an
8、d support your creativity, even with the simplest gesture, like a smile. Avoid the first kind. Be happy. Be who you want to be. If others dont like it, let them be. Happiness is a choice YOUR choice. Life isnt about pleasing everyone. Read The How of Happiness.Everyones journey and perspective on li
9、fe is totally different. Who you are is what makes you extraordinary. Do not change your unique foundation for anyone. What lies ahead will always be a bit of a mystery. Do not be afraid to explore, learn and grow. Why some things happen will never be certain. Take it in stride and move forward. Whe
10、n life pushes you over, stand up and push back even harder. Where there is a fork in the road and choices to make, make the one your future self will thank you for.Firsthand experience is often necessary for personal growth. Some life lessons can only be understood by going through them on your own.
11、 Doing so allows you to form your own conclusions based on firsthand experience, rather than someone elses subjective opinion. This experience gives you the ability to think more logically and take educated steps in a positive direction. Read As a Man Thinketh.Your intuition requires no approval. Wh
12、en it comes to exercising your inner genius, you must try what you want to try, go where you want to go, and follow your own intuition. Dont accept false choices. Dont let others put a cage around your ideas. If it feels right, take a chance. Because you never know how absolutely perfect it could tu
13、rn out to be. As Steve Jobs once said, “Dont let the noise of others opinions drown out your own inner voice, heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”Life is too short to wait any longer. If you knew for certain you had a terminal i
14、llness if you had a very limited time left to live you wouldnt waste a minute of it. Well wake up! You do have a terminal illness; its called life. In the grand scheme of things, you dont have much time left no one does. So look around at this gift youve been given, as its miracles unfold before you
15、r eyes. And choose to be happy, without approval or you will never be at all.And I will leave you with a quote to think about. It comes from our article 10 Enemies of Personal Greatness: “As long as you are worried about what others think of you, you are owned by them. Only when you require no appro
16、val from outside yourself can you truly own yourself.” 8个理由提醒你：别再期待别人的认可人生最大的自由之一就是：不再在乎别人对你的评价。有时，你需要步出熙熙攘攘的人群，呼吸一番新鲜空气，并提醒自己：我是谁？我想成为什么样的人？最美妙的事情就是听从自己内心的呼唤，勇于挑战。不要再因担心别人的看法或者畏惧未知的事情，而被动接受安乐窝里的选择。只要你去做，一切都会安好！不要让那无关紧要的琐事，羁绊自己的思路，误以为自己的梦想太过虚幻不是那么回事。从今天开始，别再等待别人的认可。这里告诉你为什么！1、人生在世，你只有这一次生命可以追逐自己的梦想。去做自己喜欢的事情，即使失败，也胜于在自己讨厌的事情上取得成功。所以请把握机会，追逐自己心的梦想，屡败屡战，直到成功。勇于牺牲，勇于走出舒适的避风港，一次次搏击人生。满载勇气和激情，直视你的恐惧。坚守自己的梦想，并努力把它付诸现实。
