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1、But Its also nice to have friends. You can play games, hang out or even just talk. So consider these suggestions to meet people and form strong, lasting friendships. Spend more time around people. If you want to make friends, you first need to put yourself out there somehow in order to meet people.
2、Friends seldom come knocking on your door while you sit at home playing computer games.Join an organization or club with people who have common interests. You dont necessarily need to have a lot of common interests with people in order to make friends with them. In fact, some of the most rewarding f
3、riendships are between two people who dont have much in common at all, but if you like a specific topic, try searching for just a location. Its a great way to meet new local people! Social networking sites such as Facebook, Twitter, BlendAbout and Google+ are great way to meet new people and learn m
4、ore about the people you meet. A church, synagogue, or other house of worship is a great place to start since you have at least have a religious faith in common.Volunteer. Volunteering is a great way for people of all ages to meet others. By working together you build bonds with people, and you migh
5、t meet others who have a passion for changing things the way you do (a common cause).Talk to people. You can join a club, go to school, or go to church but you still wont make friends if you dont actually talk to people. By the same token, you dont have to be involved with an organization to be soci
6、al, and any time you talk to someone, you have a chance at making a lasting friend. You can talk to anybody: the clerk at the video store, the person sitting next to you on the bus, or the person in front of you in the lunch line. Dont be too picky. Most conversations will be a dead-end of sorts, wh
7、en you may never talk to that person again, or you just remain acquaintances-but once in a while youll actually make a friend.Make eye contact and smile. If you have an unfriendly countenance, people are less likely to be receptive to your friendship. Be approachable by not squinting (get some glass
8、es), looking bored, frowning or appearing blankly deadpan, folding your arms or hanging out in a corner; such habits may make you look troubled or disinterested.Make small talk. Keep the conversation light and cheery. Even if youre complaining about something, make sure its something youre both diss
9、atisfied with, and emphasize the positivehow such a situation can be avoided in the future, or alternatives. Bounce a few words back and forth for a little bit. Many conversationalists say that it is good to follow a 30/70 (30% talking, 70% listening) pattern during small talk when possibleAsk them
10、out for lunch or coffee. That will give you a better opportunity to talk and get to know each other a little bit better. A good way to extend yourself is to say: “Hey, well, Ive got to go, but if you ever want to talk over lunch or coffee or anything like that, let me give you my number/e-mail addre
11、ss.“ This gives the person the opportunity to contact you; they may or may not give you their information in return, but thats fine. Maybe they dont have time for new friendsdont take it personally! Just offer your contact info to whoever seems to be potentially a good friend, and eventually somebod
12、y will get in touch.Dont do anything to pressure someone into being friends with you. Never chide acquaintances for failing to invite you to a party, for example; dont call someone repeatedly or stop by uninvited (unless you have established that stopping by unannounced is o.k.); and refrain from ov
13、erstaying your welcome anywhere. In general, take friendship slowly, and dont try to force intimacy to grow quickly; the move from acquaintance to friend can take a long time. Its understandable to want more of a good thing, but try to err on the side of less. If you are not sure about the pace of y
14、our new friendship, check in with your friend and ask directly. Too much, too fast can be scary or intimidating, and not everybody is able to say “Slow down.“ - instead, they may run the other way!Be a good friend. Once youve started spending time with potential friends, remember to do your part (e.g. initiating some of the activities, remembering birthdays, asking how the other person is feeling) or else the friendship will become unbalanced and an uneasiness or distance is likely to arise.
