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1、我们大部分还是学生，没有收入，学费都是父母亲提供的。一个 没有经济基础的人， 一 个连自己生存问题都解决不了的人又有什么资 格去谈情说爱，靠父母的钱去谈情说爱，这 和吃喝玩乐有什么区别。 诚然，爱情是不能以金钱来衡量的，但没有金钱你如何来维持一 段感 情，友情尚且不可，何况爱情。可见金钱在爱情中的重要性。对于大 学生还处于求 学的阶段，消费还不能自给，还想着谈情说爱。当然， 谈恋爱的大学生中也有成功的，但 毕竟是极少数。你在大学里读书承 载着父母的对你的巨大期望，你应该将这种期望转化为 前进的动力。 如果你把过多的时间放在谈恋爱上就是一种不负责任， 不仅仅是对父 母的 不负责，也是对自己的不负
2、责。竞争日益激烈，就业形势越来越 差。大学生要想找到工作， 必须要有不可替代的核心竞争力，而这种 竞争力的塑造主要是在大学里。心理学家经测定 证明，20-24 岁是人 的一生中学习的最佳年龄段，既是一个人智能发展的全盛时期，又是 为未来事业打基础的关键时期，三四年的大学生活是短暂而宝贵的， 年轻的大学生们切莫 把黄金时间消磨在卿卿我我之中， 而应立志奋发 成才，待到功成名就时，天涯何处无芳 草。 大学生每年的死亡率是 1.97% ， 而九成是自杀， 七成是因情而 轻生，这个比例 远高于社会上因情自杀的比率，这我就想问，能说大 学生承受得了爱的压力吗？我们上大 学的主要目的还是学习。 大学谈 恋
3、爱的潮流，浪费金钱精力时间。也许，初恋者不赞同 我的意见，但 是过来人不会否定我的说法。爱情是一种情感。既然是情感便不能压 抑， 问题是已经没有人因为爱所以爱了，需谨慎地考虑其它因素。 Most of our students, no income, tuition is provided by the parents. A no economic basis, a companys own survival can not solve the problem what people eligible to be concerned with love and romance, depend
4、on their parents for money to be concerned with love and romance, and what is the difference between the idle away in seeking pleasure. Indeed, love is not measured in terms of money, but without money you how to maintain a sense of affection, friendship and love have not. Visible in the importance
5、of money in love. The students still in study stage, consumer also cannot self-sufficient, also think of be concerned with love and romance. Of course, the university students fall in love was successful, but after all, is one of the very few. You will study in the University bearing his parents for
6、 your great expectations, you should take it into forward momentum expectation. If you spend too much time on fall in love is a kind of responsibility, not only for the parent is not responsible for, is also not responsible for their own. The increasingly fierce competition, the employment situation
7、 is getting worse. College student to find a job, must have an irreplaceable core competitiveness, the competitiveness is mainly in the university. Psychologists prove by determination of 20-24 years, human life is the best age, is a personal development for Smart s heyday, but also for the future c
8、areer playing the crucial period of the foundation, three or four years of university life is short and precious, young college students do not prime time spent in whispers of love, and should be determined become hard, to achieve success and win recognition, plenty of fish in the sea. College Stude
9、nts annual mortality rate is 1.97%, while the nine is a Dutch act, 70% for passion and suicide, this ratio is much higher than the social situation as the ratio of the Dutch act, I would like to ask, can say the students bear love pressure? Our main purpose is to study at university. The trend of Un
10、iversity fall in love, waste of money, energy and time. Maybe, love does not agree with my opinion, but did not deny me. Love is a feeling. Since it is the emotion will not suppress, the problem is no one love because of love, need to carefully consider other factors.两个人恋爱，时间上肯定就会要相互的牺牲一下；肯定是会分散 自己的
11、一部分的精力；肯 定大多数的同学来讲，和大家在一起共处的 时间就会减少，有很多锻炼自己能力的机会都会失去。 如果有人谈恋爱了， 那么他身边的人很快就会在短期内找到自己 的心上人， 好像在攀比，那么这样的爱情，牢靠吗？如果提倡谈恋爱, 这样的话,是不是有损校容,来校 的人们包括你们的父母来到这个学校 是不是很惊讶!什么以书育人的学校!纯属以情育人.真 是校不是校了！ 是不是有点像婚姻介绍所了！ 中国青年政治学院青年发展研究院首次公 布了他们在北京地区 的“大学生公众形象调查” 。仅有 11.2的调查对象认为大学生谈恋 爱是出于真诚相爱。我们的心理还没有成熟，你确认你能承受失败 吗？而且， 失败就
12、仅 仅是失败吗？失败之后我们会有很长时间不能从 阴影中走出，甚至有的人再也走不出。看 看失恋的人的种种表现吧， 你们都懂的，难道我们能避免这种事情的发生吗？ 在某一处 属于你的秘密地方，你曾立下誓要好好学习之后，遗憾 忘记自己来上大学的意义？还是在 大学要毕业时找不到工作而遗憾 自己曾将太多的时间用来谈恋爱？是否会在父母期盼的眼 神下遗憾 太多的不应该？当我们踌躇是不是应该找个恋人以满足我们的心理 需要时，我 们的心理本身已经变的猥琐不可礼遇，我们不知道在同一 片蓝天下还有挣扎在贫困线上的 同胞！ 大学生恋爱存在的问题 1、荒废学业 2、恋爱动机不端正 3、搞多角恋 Two person, t
13、ime would be sure to mutual sacrifice; are sure to disperse a portion of their own energy; sure most students, and we in together time will reduce, have much opportunity to exercise their skills will be lost. If someone fall in love, then everyone around him quickly in the short term to find his swe
14、etheart, like in the competition, so this love, reliable? If advocate fall in love, so, is it right? Lossy school environment, school people including your parents come to the school is it right? Surprised! What the book educating school! Is with affection education . What school is not a school! Is
15、 it right? Like introduction by marriage! China Youth University for Political Science Youth Development Research Institute published for the first time they in the Beijing region of the “ public image of the Chinese University Students survey “. Only 11.2% of respondents think that college students
16、 love is sincere love. Our mind is not yet mature, are you sure you can afford to fail? Moreover, failure is simply failure? After the defeat we would have a very long time cannot emerge from the shadows, even some people never go out. Have a look of lovelorn people behave, you know, cant we avoid such things happen? At one point to your secret place, you have made a vow to study hard, sorry forget yourself to the university? Or in the university to g
