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1、一篇爱情美文 Some Meanings of Authentic Love（英汉版）authentic adj 真正的inconsistency n （原则、行为方面等 ）前后不一致，首尾不一flaw n 缺点core n 本质，精髓mask n. 面具，伪装smother v 使透不过气，使窒息possessive adj 拥有的，占有的clinging n.依附consequently adv. 因此，所以roadblock n. 路障enhance v. 提高，增强surrender v. 放弃，交出，投降conform v. 与。相符合，与。相一致primarily adv. 主要地
2、，首要地responsive adj. 响应的，回应的entail v. 使成为必要，需要driectly adv. 直接地neglect v . 忽略，忽视stimulant n. 激励物；影响力detract v. 减损lovable adj 可爱的，讨人喜欢的pretense n. 伪装，虚假tolerate v. 宽恕，容忍imperfection n. 缺点boredom n. 无聊dole v.施舍，发放impasse n. 绝境，僵局transform v.使改变，改善imperfect adj 不完美的livable adj 适合于居住的free v. 使自由imply v.
3、意味着expanssive adj. 扩展的，广泛的bar v.禁止，不准exclusively adv. 仅仅，专门地wedded(to ) adj. 献身的；执着的pseudolove n. 虚假爱情cement v. 黏结，胶合interdependent adj.互相依存的personality n. 个人；人物；品格destiny n.命运overly adv. 过度地confront v 面对empathize v. 有同感，起共鸣，表同情closeness n. 亲密togetherness n. 在一起，相聚separation n. 别离，分开bond n. 联结，纽带red
4、iscove n.重新发现，重新认识emptiness n. 无知，空虚fullness n.充实；丰富potential n.潜力relevant adj 有关联的，切题的conclude v.结束mature adj 成熟的union n. 结合preserve v. 保留，保存integrity n. 完整individuality n. 个性，个人特征paradox n.自相矛盾的事proper nouns gerald correy 杰拉尔德。科里（人名）marianne schneider correy 玛丽安娜。施奈德。科里reverend maier 梅尔教士casey 凯斯v
5、anceburg 温斯伯格goethe 歌德fromm 弗罗姆useful expressionscare about sb./sth 关心，关注be concerned about 关心，挂念conform to /with sth 与某事一致，吻合be involved in sth 与。有关系，有牵连detract from sth 使逊色share in sth 分享；分担feel like doing 想要（做某事），有。有意向with (no) strings attached （口语）带有（不带）附加条件come to terms with sth 学会面对困境，接受不好的现实，
6、达成协议，和解settle for （无可奈何地）接受，将就identify with sb 感 到能够理解某人，与，有同感sum up 总结Some Meanings of Authentic LoveLove means that I know the person I love. Im aware of the many sides of the other person-not just the beautiful side but also the limitations, inconsistencies and flaws.Love means that I care about
7、the welfare of the person I love. If I care about you, Im concerned about your growth, and I hope you will become all that you can become.Love means having respect for the dignity of the person I love. If I love you, I can see you as a separate person, with your own values and thoughts and feelings,
8、 and I do not insist that you surrender your identity and conform to an image of what I expect you to be for me.Love means having a responsibility toward the person I love. If I love you, Im responsive to most of your major needs as a person.Love means growth for both myself and the person I love. I
9、f I love you, I am growing as a result of my love. You are a stimulant for me to become more fully what I might become, and my loving enhances your being as well.Love means making a commitment to the person I love. This commitment does not entail surrendering our total selves to each other; nor does
10、 it imply that the relationship is necessarily permanent. It does entail a willingness to stay with each other in times of pain, uncertainty, struggle, and despair, as well as in times of calm and enjoyment.Love means trusting the person I love. If I love you, I trust that you will accept my caring
11、and my love and that you wont deliberately hurt me. I trust the reciprocal nature of our love.Love can tolerate imperfection. In a love relationship there are times of boredom, times when I may feel like giving up, times of real strain, and times I experience an impasse. Authentic love does not impl
12、y enduring happiness. I can stay during rough times, however, because I can remember what we had together in the past, and I can picture what we will have together in our future if we care enough to face our problems and work them through.Love is freeing. Love is freely given, not doled out on deman
13、d. Authentic love is not given with strings attached. There is an unconditional quality about love.Love is expansive. If I love you, I encourage you to reach out and develop other relationships. The honest evidence of our love is our commitment to encouraging anothers full development.Love means hav
14、ing a want for the person I love without having a need for that person in order to be complete. If I am nothing without you, then Im not really free to love you.Love means identifying with the person I love. If I love you, I can empathize with you and see the world through your eyes. I can identify
15、with you because Im able to see myself in you and you in me. This closeness does not imply a continual togetherness, for distance and separation are sometimes essential in a loving relationship. Distance can intensify a loving bond, and it can help us rediscover ourselves, so that we are able to mee
16、t each other in a new way.Love is selfish. I can only love you if I genuinely love, value, appreciate, and respect myself. If I am empty, the all I can give you is my emptiness. If I feel that Im complete and worthwhile in myself, then Im able to give you out of my fullness. One of the best ways for me to give you love is by fully enjoying myself with you.Love involves seeing the potential within the person we love. In my love for another, I view
