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1、EQ Plays a Role in Personal Success,Members：Deng Jing，Zhang Xiaolu , Zhang Yaping , Kong Xiangwei,What is EQ ?,Mixed model,The model introduced by Daniel Goleman focuses on EI as a wide array of competencies and skills that drive leadership performance.,Emotional Quotient （Emotional intelligence EI)
2、 is the ability to monitor ones own and other peoples emotions, to discriminate between different emotions and label them appropriately, and to use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior.,Golemans model outlines five main EI constructs ： 1.Self-awareness the ability to know ones emotio
3、ns, strengths, weaknesses, drives, values and goals and recognize their impact on others while using gut feelings to guide decisions. 2.Self-regulation involves controlling or redirecting ones disruptive emotions and impulses and adapting to changing circumstances.,3.Social skill managing relationsh
4、ips to move people in the desired direction 4.Empathy - considering other peoples feelings especially when making decision 5.Motivation - being driven to achieve for the sake of achievement.,EQ Plays a Role in Personal Success,Para. 1 It turns out that a scientist can see the future by watching four
5、-year-olds interact with a piece of candy. The researcher invites the children, one by one, into a plain room and begins the gentle torture. “You can have this piece of candy right now,” he says. “But if you wait while I leave the room for a while, you can have two pieces of candy when I get back.”
6、And then he leaves.,Passage Reading,Passage Reading,Para. 2 Some children grab for the treat the minute hes out the door. Some last a few minutes before they give in. But others are determined to wait. They cover their eyes; they put their heads down; they sing to themselves; they try to play games
7、or even fall asleep. When the researcher returns, he gives these children their hard-earned pieces of candy. And then, science waits for them to grow up.,Passage Reading,Para. 3 By the time the children reach high school, something remarkable has happened. A survey of the childrens parents and teach
8、ers found that those who as four-year-olds had enough self-control to hold out for the second piece of candy generally grew up to be better adjusted, more popular, adventurous, confident and dependable teenagers. The children who gave in to temptation early on were more likely to be lonely, easily f
9、rustrated and inflexible. They could not endure stress and shied away from challenges.,1.According to Daniel Golemans model, which part of the four-year-old childrens emotional intelligence has been tested?,Key: Self-regulation The keys who did not give in to the temptation of the first pice of cand
10、y,have a good self-regulation ability when faced with the gentle torture.,Question 1,2.What is the finding of the experiment concerning watching four-year-olds interact with a piece of candy?,Key: Those four-year-olds who had enough self-control to hold out for the second piece of candy generally gr
11、ew up to be better adjusted, more popular, adventurous, confident and dependable teenagers.,Skim the first three paragraphs to find:,Question 2,It turns out that = It is proved that Sth. turns out to be / sb. turns out to do sth. = sth. / sb. is discovered to be / do sth. 人们发现,It turns out that a sc
12、ientist can see the future by watching four-year-olds interact with a piece of candy.,原来他们还是孩子时她就认识他了。,It turned out that she had known him when they were children.,It turns out that (clause):,人们发现，人生总是交替于成功与失败之间。 （交替于A和B之间 alternate between A and B）,It turns out that life always alternates between
13、success and failure.,It turns out that (clause),The minute that = as soon as,2. Some children grab for the treat the minute hes out the door.,我一见到他就知道出事了。,I recognized him the minute I saw him.,The minute (that) I saw him I knew something was wrong.,我一眼就认出了他,These two chemicals interact with each ot
14、her at a certain temperature to produce a substance which could cause an explosion.,这两种化学品在一定的温度下互相作用，会产生一种能引起爆炸的物质。,3. interact with to communicate with or react with (each other),note quickly put out your hand to catch sth. 想抓住某物,溺水之人想抓住最后一根稻草但最终还是没抓住。,The drowning man grabbed for the last straw b
15、ut in vain in the end.,4. grab for:,It often turns out that what one grabs for most is not truly important in life.,人们常常发现，一个人最想抓住的并非人生真正重要的。,grab for:,note agree to do sth. that you had at first opposed 让步,give away 泄露 give out 分发；耗尽；发表 give up 放弃；自首；不再指望,5. give in:,His wife went on at him so much
16、 that eventually he gave in.,妻子不停地责怪他，他最终只好让步。,He tried to smile a natural smile, but his voice gave him away.,他努力笑得自然些，可他的声音出卖了他。,give in:,note not accept anything less than you have asked for 坚持要,对于那些坚持终生追求不动摇的人，困难只能是增添其信心的砝码。,For those who hold out for their lifelong pursuit, difficulties are nothing but weights in favor of their confidence.,hold out for :,The least acceptable thing about life is that all one holds out for turns out to be naught.,人生最不能接受的，莫过于自己所坚
