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1、MODULE 1 Small TalkProfessor Wiseman at the University of Hertfordshire in the UK estimates charisma is 50% innate and 50% trained. Here are 7 qualities of charismatic people that you can incorporate into your life.英国赫特福德郡大学怀斯曼教授证实，魅力一半源于天生，一半来自后天。下面是提升魅力的七个好习惯。1. Listen Actively做一个积极的听众When you lis
2、ten, give them your undivided attention and ask questions. A study found that active listening helps avoid misunderstandings and opens people up to get them to say more. Actively listening will improve communication with those around you,.当你是个听众时，一定要全神贯注，别忘了问点问题。研究表明，做一名积极的听众可以避免误会，同时使说话人说得更多。2. Spe
3、ak Clearly语言表达清晰Take your time and think about each sentence. Especially when speaking to more than one person at once, or to a new group of people, practice your approach beforehand.花点时间想想你要说的每句话。尤其是在和不止一个人或一群人对话时，一定要先练习一下你的说话技巧。3. Smile from Within发自内心的微笑A genuine smile from within shows on the ou
4、tside: you smile with your eyes and mouth. But when you smile on the inside, people are more receptive when you approach them. When you smile from the heart and follow up with a kind personality, you will get more and give more to the world.真正的微笑是从内到外散发出来的：你的眼睛和嘴都在笑。而是当你微笑的时候，要发自内心，这样人们更能接受你。当你发自内心的
5、微笑，你会给予世界更多，同时也得到更多。4. Stand Up Tall4.站直点Good posture makes you appear secure and confident; if youre not feeling that confident today, fake it until you make it!好的站姿让你更加自信，如果今天感觉底气不足，那么就站直了直到你成功！5. Spread Praise & Phrase不吝惜赞美If you have to critique someone, before you do, think of how you would wan
6、t to be critiqued. Be direct and address the problem at hand, propose a solution, get feedback. At the same time, give credit & compli- ments where they are due. Building confidence in yourself is important, but being able to build confidence in others thats charisma.当你批评什么人之前，想象你自己是否能接受这样的批评。你应该事先直
7、接指出问题，提出解决方案，给予一定的回馈。同时要不断给予他们信心和赞美。自信很重要，但是给予别人信心这就是魅力所在了。6. Remember Names记住别人的名字A legendarily successful writer known as Mr. Charisma himself , once said that a persons name is to him or her the sweetest and most important sound in any language. When you first learn someones name, repeat it back
8、to them. Also use their name when you end the conversation, itll help immensely.被称为“魅力先生”的传奇成功作家戴尔卡耐基曾说过：“无论在什么语言中，对于一个人来说，他的名字永远是最好听和最重要的。当你第一次知道别人的名字，就立即重复他们的名字给予反馈。同时，在结束对话时也要提及对方的名字，这会帮大忙。”7. Eye Contact眼神交流Make eye contact while a person is talking to you, and while you are speaking to them. Eye contact is one of the most important aspects of communication. It keeps the other person focused on you, and keeps you focused on their words and meaning.和别人交流的时候别忘了眼神交流。眼神交流是交际里的重要部分。也让其他人把焦点集中在你身上，还可以让你去集中精力理解他们的话语和含义。
