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1、 Essay写作范文-大学生人际交往人际交往是指人与人之间的一种心理和行为的沟通过程。对于刚刚走进大学的学生，往往都是同寝室的人关系比较好，这是时空接近性因素所起的作用。人际关系在一定程度上受到外表因素的影响，但外表因素只在人们刚刚接触时起的作用较大一些。要建立长时间的、稳定的人际关系，还需要良好的人格及长期的相处。Why is it that some people are so popular, and some are so often crowded out? The same is true of life, why some people are happy and harmoni
2、ous, some people argue ceaselessly? One of the biggest problems in modern society is relationships. Good use will become the key to wealth, and it will become a rope that will hinder our success.Interpersonal communication is a process of communication between people. Lets take a look at some of the
3、 factors that influence interpersonal communication.We often say that close neighbors are better than distant relatives. American psychologist fosse oettinger in married students dormitory at the Massachusetts institute of technology, the family of a new friend is more close to the neighbor, the far
4、ther the distance Choose the less chance to make friends. This shows that the smaller the space distance, contact number by more people, the easier it is to establish a close relationship, for example, has just entered the university students, tend to be better relations with the person of bedroom,
5、this is the role of the proximity of time and space factors.Birds of a feather flock together, the more similar they are, the more they attract each other and become intimate. It is easier to be a good friend if you share a common interest, a similar experience, and a similar interest.People with co
6、mplementary personalities are well suited to each other in terms of learning or working partners. For example, a relatively independent, a all like to listen to others, to follow, so it is better, if two people are very strong, all like to make, are likely to vary; And if two people are not very muc
7、h, either can do anything, there may be a lack of opinion and look at each other. But we said that in the process of interpersonal similarity is the foundation of complementary factors can only play a supplementary role, that is, the complementary is conditional range, a blaze, handle affairs the pe
8、rson with neat short temper, and deciding a cautious slow people together is a very painful thing.The behavior tendency and personality of each person in interpersonal communication influence the establishment and development of interpersonal relationship. No one likes to be self-centered, selfish a
9、nd narrow-minded, and only care about themselves. A person who is cold, hypocritical, stubborn, and who is critical of others.One of the writers said, beauty is a letter of introduction, a pass. Interpersonal relationships in a certain extent, under the influence of external factors, girl grow well,
10、 the boy is handsome may help to establish a good interpersonal relationship, however, we say the exterior factor only when people new to the role of some larger. To build a long, stable relationship, you need good personality and long-term relationships.People who dont want to meet new people dont
11、want to spend time with people.There is some timidity in relationships, fear of interacting with others, social phobia.Everyone wants to have a good person, and people dont like to be confused and stupid. They dont like people to think they are uneducated. No one is willing to hurt others, and the r
12、eason why they are self-defeating is because they dont know how to communicate. Lets explore these international rules of human interaction.In 1987, the American scholar Dr Alexander Della and Dr O connor, published papers, expounds the principle, to succeed in interpersonal communication, it must d
13、o, : communicating with what you need, what we are going to meet each other in the legal conditions. Here, this platinum rule is actually two main points, the first is legal. We say that the Peoples Republic of China is a state of law. What we do is legal. Whats the second point? Focus on the other
14、person. If you dont understand this, youll be in a lot of trouble in your relationship.Then, according to this law, we can derive three principles, which we shall not forget in our intercourse.Respect is one of the most basic interpersonal communication principle, we say that modern society is a s o
15、f make public individual character, different personality people live together, will seek common ground while shelving differences, respect other peoples personality, respect other peoples habits and customs, respect other peoples interests and dreams. In communication, its like looking in a mirror.
16、 You dont respect others, you cant get respect from others. Therefore, we should learn respect in the first place, respect for superiors, and respect for classmates and colleagues. To respect subordinates is a virtue; Respect for guests is common sense; To respect an opponent is a kind of grace; To respect all people is a kind of education.As the name implies, it is to think about the problem from the pe
