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1、Organization Content Language A good compositionFriendship1.友谊的重要性：友谊的重要性：Friends are our truest treasures. A good friend is someone that lets us be ourselves and hopefully encourages us to be the best part of ourselves. How many times have they shared joys and sorrows together with us? How many tim
2、es have they offered help to us when were in need? In fact, without a friend, nothing much seems enjoyable. Friendship is not only good for the body, but also good for the soul. It is a mirror of our sorrow, joy and value.2.建立友谊的条件：建立友谊的条件：(1) We have to be honest with others and should always say w
3、hat we mean. Lies will surely make people stay far away from us in the long run. (2) We must do something to make ourselves interesting as a potential friend. This almost always involves smiles and friendly chats about small matters of mutual interest to begin the contact. However, interest is not a
4、lways the only base of friendship. Friends who have interests as alike as twins may wear out their friendship as their interests change. Having a friend with different interests from our own gives us some reasons for exchanging ideas, experiences and even comfortably sharing periods of silence.(3) W
5、e need to be valuable to the person we want to befriend. We have to have something to offer the other person, something of value which the other is prepared to exchange for.(4) We must not be selfish. We should learn how to show concern for others. Nature intends us to love and to be loved.(5) We ha
6、ve to be polite and modest enough. If we are proud or rude in public, we can hardly win others respect, not to mention friendship. 3.建立友谊：建立友谊： Making friends is not easy for a lot of people. Here are some steps to develop friendship.(1) Always smile and be polite. In this way people wont think you
7、are serious and hard to get along with. (2) Introduce yourself and talk to others so that others will know more about you. (3) Dont be too shy. Voice your opinions so that others will know you are a person of thought.(4) Remain open to new cultures, ideas and values and try to adapt yourself to the
8、new environment. There is a famous proverb: “When in Rome, do as the Romans do”.(5) Attend parties, sports events and special gatherings. In this way you and others will know more about each other. (6) Reach out to others when they need help. Only a person who is ready to help can win friendship.4.
9、无法融入的原因无法融入的原因:You might be a self-conscious person.You might worry about what people think of you. You might be thinking about saying the right thing too much, rather than being yourself and engaging in authentic conversation.5. 保持友谊：保持友谊：Try to avoid quarrels. Discuss and negotiate with others whe
10、n your opinions differ. Communication is making a space for discussion and talking about how you feel as opposed to just saying what the other person did wrong. If you can say to a friend, “I got my feelings hurt,” rather than “You hurt my feelings,” you are going to be able to solve the problem muc
11、h faster.In dealing with the many challenges that friendship will bring to you, try to see them for what they are: small hurdles you need to jump or get through on your way through life. Nothing is so big that it is impossible to get over, and hurt only serves to make us stronger. It is all part of
12、growing up, it happens to everyone, and some day you will look back on all of this and say, “Hard as it was, it made me who I am today. And that is a good thing.”（2008山东）山东）假设你是新华中学的学生张华，班里从外地转来一名假设你是新华中学的学生张华，班里从外地转来一名同学李明，他一时无法融入新的班集体中，感到很苦同学李明，他一时无法融入新的班集体中，感到很苦恼。请根据下列要点用英语给他写封信：恼。请根据下列要点用英语给他写封信
13、：（1）帮他分析原因（）帮他分析原因（2）给他提出建议（）给他提出建议（3）陈述你）陈述你帮助他的具体打算帮助他的具体打算注意：词数注意：词数120150Dear Li Ming,_Best regards, Zhang Hua一、解读要求一、解读要求1体裁：一封用以帮助你同学的信。因此不必客套，体裁：一封用以帮助你同学的信。因此不必客套，直奔主题。信尾应有相应的祝愿语。直奔主题。信尾应有相应的祝愿语。2要点：要点： 符合常理的原因、切实可行的建议、力所符合常理的原因、切实可行的建议、力所能及的帮助。能及的帮助。二、列提纲二、列提纲Dear Li Ming, Im sorry to know
14、that you feel distressed at your new class. One of the reasons, I believe, is that you might be too shy to talk confidently with your classmates. Maybe you are afraid that your classmates will make fun of your accent. Therefore it is natural for you to feel lonely occasionally. I believe, with your
15、effort, you can manage to overcome these difficulties. To start with, you should learn to speak Putong hua, which can be well understood by all the Chinese. Besides, comparing notes with your classmates frequently is a good way for you to make new friends. In your spare time, Ill invite you to play
16、basketball or go to some parties. Also, Id like to introduce my good friends to you. I hope you can adapt to the new school life as soon as possible. Best regards, Zhang HuaDear Li Ming, Im really happy to have you as my new classmate this semester. Hearing that youve found it not easy to truly beco
17、me part of the class, I feel sorry. As you are from the countryside, chances are that you are a bit shy in such new surroundings. However, slilence only makes matter worse. Be brave and make full use of your passion and kindness to bridge the gap between us. As the communication between us goes furt
18、her, were sure to find much in common. And if you dont mind, I want to make friends with you. To help you be better known and accepted by our classmates, I will take you with me when activities are planned. In addition, please feel free to ask me for help, Im always at your service. Best regards, Zhang Hua
