如何促进人际关系

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1、如何促进人际关系如何促进人际关系HOW TO FOSTER BETTER HOW TO FOSTER BETTER RELATIONSHIPRELATIONSHIP 经文 : 太 7 : 12 , 罗 12 : 18 Text : Matt 7:12 , Rom 12:18 1.无论何事,你们愿意人怎样待你们,你们也要怎样待人.In everything, do to others what you would have them do to you.(太Matt 7:12 )（罗（罗12:1812:18）若是能行，总要尽力与）若是能行，总要尽力与众人和睦。众人和睦。(Ro 12:18) If

2、 it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.1.注意别人的兴趣CONSIDER THE INTEREST OF OTHERS 各人不要单顾自己的事也要顾别人的事.Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to theinterests of others. ( 腓 Phil 2:4 ) 2. 欣赏别人的长处 VIEW AT THE GOODNESS OF OTHERS 凡事不可结党,不可贪图虚浮的荣耀,只

3、要存心谦卑,各人看别人比自己强.Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility. Consider others better than yourselves. ( 腓 Phil 2:3 )3. 关心别人的感受INDENTIFY THE FEELINGS OF OTHERS与喜乐的人要同乐,与哀哭的人要同哭. Rejoice with those who rejoice, mourn with those who mourn. ( 罗 Rom 12:15 )4 4.对对 人人 勿勿 吹吹 毛毛 求求 庇庇

4、NOT TO BE PETTY WITH NOT TO BE PETTY WITH PEOPLES WEAKNESS PEOPLES WEAKNESS不不 要要 看看 自自 己己 过过 於於 所所 当当 看看 的的 , ,要要 照照 着着 神神 所所 分分 给给 各各 人人 信信 心心 的的 大大小小,看看 得得 合合 乎乎 中中 道道 . .Do not think of yourself more highly Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of than you ought, b

5、ut rather think of yourself with sober yourself with sober judgementjudgement, in , in accordance with the measure of faith accordance with the measure of faith god has given you.god has given you. ( (罗罗 Rom 12:3)Rom 12:3)5.待人要彬彬有礼 BE POLITE & COURTEOUS TOWARD OTHERS柔和的舌头,能折断骨头. A gentle tongue can

6、break a bone. ( 箴 Pro 25:15 )回答柔和回答柔和, ,使怒消退使怒消退, ,言语暴戾言语暴戾 , ,触触动怒气动怒气. .A gentle answer turns away wrath, A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. but a harsh word stirs up anger. ( (箴箴 Pro 15:1Pro 15:1) )6.愿与人共商大计 BE OPEN FOR DISCUSSION WITH OTHERS不要志气高大,倒要俯就卑微的人,不要自以为聪明

7、.Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited. (罗 Rom 12:16)7.对人当感激赞赏 BE GRATEFUL TO OTHERS凡事谢恩.Give thanks in all circumstances. ( 帖前 1 The 5:18 )8.8.使使 他他 人人 舒舒 舒舒 服服 服服 MAKE OTHERS FEEL AT EASEMAKE OTHERS FEEL AT EASE凡事都叫众人喜欢.Try to please everybod

8、y in everyway. ( 林前 1 Cor 10:33 )9.9.多多 给给 人人 谈谈 话话 机机 会会 GIVE OPPORTUNITIES FOR GIVE OPPORTUNITIES FOR OTHERS TO SHAREOTHERS TO SHARE你们各人要快快的听慢慢的说,慢慢的动怒.Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. ( 雅Jas 1:19 )一句话说得合宜就如金苹果在银纲子里.A word aptly spoken is like apples of g

9、old in settings of silver. (箴Pro 25:11)10.言语当谨慎诚实 BE ALERT AND SPEAK THE TRUTH四四 种种 责责 任任 观观4 TYPES OF 4 TYPES OF RESPONSIBILITIESRESPONSIBILITIES我错了我错了, ,你有责任你有责任 I am wrong, you are I am wrong, you are responsibleresponsible你错了,你有责任You are wrong, you are responsible 我错了,我有责任I am wrong, I am responsible你错了,我有责任You are wrong, I am responsible“从别人的错误中找到自己的责任”“ Find my Responsibility From the Mistakes of Others”