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1、浅谈离异家庭儿童的多重性格Statistical analysis of multiple personality divorcedfamilies children近年来，由于社会经济的发展，人们思想观念也不断变化，离婚人数越来越多，相应的, 离异家庭数量也在不断增加。多数调查研究认为，父母由于个人原因导致家庭破裂对儿童性 格的负面影响很大。In recent years, due to the development of social economy, people concept also constantly change, the number of divorce is incr
2、easing, the corresponding, the number of divorced parents are also growing. Most research argues that parents family breakdown due to personal reasons negative effect on childrens character.一、离异家庭儿童主要的不良性格特征A main, divorced families children are undesirable disposition feature性格是十分复杂的心理现象，它包含着各个层面的内
3、容。所谓离异家庭儿童的不良性格， 并不是根据其自身性格特点而言，而是相对于正常家庭儿童性格特点而言的。单亲家庭儿童 不良性格特征主要表现在以下几个方面。Character is very complicated psychological phenomenon, it contains all aspects of content. The so-called divorce childrens bad personality, not according to its own characteristics, but relative to the normal family, childr
4、en personality characteristics. Single parent families children are undesirable disposition feature is mainly manifested in the following respects.（一）冷漠离异家庭儿童由于家庭破损造成其心灵的创伤，失去了对生活的信心，常常显得心灰意 冷。他们对人和事物缺乏热情，无动于衷，有时甚至还会对人怀有敌对情绪。这样他们就不 容易被别人所理解和接纳，对其发展产生不利影响。Divorced families caused their children becau
5、se the family broken heart trauma, lost confidence in life, often seem disheartened. They lack of enthusiasm for people and things, indifferent, and sometimes even have hostile to man. So they will not easy to be understood and accepted and harmful to their development.（二）自卑自卑是离异家庭儿童最主要的性格特征。自卑儿童早期表
6、现为：常年情绪低落；过度怕 羞；拒绝交朋友；难以集中注意力；经常疑神疑鬼；贬低或嫉妒他人；自暴自弃；回避竞争 竞赛；语言表达能力差；对挫折和疾病难以承受等特征。Inferiority is divorced families children the main character. Inferiority is shown as: early childhood depression all year long; Too much shy; Refuse to make friends; Difficulty concentrating; Often suspicious; Belittle
7、or jealous of others; Abandon; Avoid competition competition; Language expression ability is poor; Unbearable to setbacks and disease characteristics.（三）怯懦据统计，父母离异的儿童占29.63%，怯懦性格源于恐惧感，而在孩子小的时候引起恐 惧感多源于成人，主要表现为胆小怕事，容易屈从他人，无反抗精神，在困难面前惊慌失措， 感情脆弱，经不住挫折和打击。According to statistics, accounted for 29.63%, o
8、f divorce children cowardly character comes from fear, and cause fear arises from when children are small adults, main show is timid, easy to other people, no defiance, panic in front of difficulties, feeling vulnerable, giving frustration and blow.（四）孤僻孤僻是离异家庭儿童表现最明显的性格特征。离异家庭儿童消极的情绪体验使他们不能 正确评价自己，
9、也不能正确对待别人，主要表现为沉默孤独，少与人交流，往往无友或少友， 对他人采取冷漠的态度，心中充满了孤寂愁苦、凄凉和被遗弃的感觉，越发与外界疏远，处 于自我封闭的状态。Autism is divorced families children the most obvious character traits. Divorced families children experience negative emotions so that they cant evaluate themselves correctly, also cant correctly treat others, main
10、 show is lonely silence, less communication with people, often without a friend or friends less, take the attitude of indifference to others, the heart is full of loneliness and sorrow, sad and feeling abandoned, increasingly detached from the outside world, is in a state of self sealing.（五）焦虑焦虑是由紧张
11、不安、担心、忧郁等感觉所组成的一种情绪状态，如紧张、不安、非常敏 感、伤心压抑、不快乐等。离异家庭儿童由于父母闹离婚时对孩子的疏忽和父母一方的去世， 会使儿童在其发展中因爱和安全的需要得不到满足而缺乏安全感，因而，离异家庭儿童或多 或少都存在焦虑情绪。Anxiety is composed of nervous, worry, depression and so on feeling of a kind of emotional state, such as tension, nervous, sensitive, sad depressed, not happy, and so on. Di
12、vorced families children owing to the negligence of parents divorce to the child and the parents of one party dies, can make children in their development because of love and security needs are not being met and the lack of security, therefore, divorced families children more or less there is anxiet
13、y.二、离异家庭儿童不良性格特征的成因分析Second, paper analyzes the causes of divorced families children are undesirable disposition feature（一）没有良好的家庭环境是其不良性格特征形成的主要因素现实生活中无数的事实证明，和睦稳定的家庭，对下一代的健康成长有着不可估量的影 响。家庭是社会的细胞，社会的稳定与进步，首先从家庭的稳定和进步开始。人和则家兴， 家和则国兴。那种只顾自己享受，全然不顾孩子健康成长的父母，其所作所为，实质上是对 孩子幼小心灵的一种折磨和摧残。我们必须清醒地认识到，在离异家庭中
14、，由于孩子只能获 得单方面的父爱或母爱（有的孩子甚至连一方面的爱都难得到），而导致成长过程中的心理 错位，智力发育迟缓，绝大多数离婚家庭的子女会体验到失落感、被遗弃感、不安全感。Countless facts have proved in real life, harmonious and stable family, have a immeasurable impact on the healthy growth of the next generation. Family is the cell of society, social stability and progress, firs
15、t of all, starting from the family stability and progress. And the home, home and GuoXing. That you enjoy, regardless the healthy growth of childrens parents, their actions, is essentially a kind of torture to the childs little heart and trample upon. We must realize soberly, in the divorce, because
16、 children can only obtain unilaterally a father or a mothers love, some children even love is hard to get） on the one hand, to grow in the process of psychological, mental retardation, the majority of divorced families children will experience the loss, abandoned feeling, sense of insecurity.家庭是个人生活的重要环境，对儿童早期性格的形成起决定性作用。离异家庭儿童在父 母离异前后经常感受到一系列消极的情绪体验，情绪与性格密切相关，有的孩子因长期的抑 郁而逐渐形成了孤僻、怯懦的性格；有的孩子因长期生活在争吵、打骂的环境中变得情绪暴 躁，形成冷酷粗暴的性格；还有的
