TheculturaldifferencesbetweenChineseandwesternetiquetteprobing[Abstract]Etiquetteisanationinthespecifichistoricalconditionsandgeographicalenvironmentdevelopmentandheritagedownetiquettecivilizationsstandard,isasymboloftheculturalmorphologyandreflect.DifferencesbetweenChineseandwesterncultureinappellationandcall,meet,dinersfiveaspects,ladiesfirstshowdifferentetiquetteform.Thedifferentnationality'sthinkingstyleandconceptofvaluedifferencebetweenChineseandwesternetiquettedifferenceistheculturalroots.Use"anddifferent"theattitudeoftreatingtheculturaldifferencesbetweenChineseandwesternetiquette,recognitionandrespectfordifferences,exploringetiquettecultureinteroperability,ithelpsimprovethesensitivityandofculturaldifferencesonhisculture,therebyimprovingcommunicationefficiencyresilience.[Keywords]Chineseandwesternetiquette;Culturaldifference;ValuesFirst,Chineseandwesternetiquetteculturedifference"Etiquette"istheproductofcivilizedsociety,itisanartificialconstructinsocialinteractiontospecifiedinthemannerspeoplebehaviorsuchascommunicationnorms.Aslongasthehumanexistencecontactsandcommunicationactivities,humanneedsthroughetiquettetoexpresstheiremotionsandrespecteachother.Spain'squeenElizabethoncesaid,"courtesybutaletterofrecommendation."trafficsifangChinasinceancienttimes,boastsaformalstate,hospitablepersonswithcourtesyisthetraditionalvirtuesoftheChinesenation,whichformedarichcultureetiquette,eliminateoneuntimelyfeudaldross,combiningthedevelopmentpracticeofTheTimeschangeandenrichthecontentofthecivilizationandprogress,stillveryimportant.EspeciallyinafterChina'sentryintoWTO,withtheUKandthewesterncountriesrepresentedfrequentlycommunicating.Ifyoudon'tunderstandwesternetiquettecustomsandtraditions,heislikelytocausemisunderstanding,causingcommunicationcannot.Somewedon'tmindwords,manners,inforeignguestsmaylooklikeisdisrespectfuloroffendoroffensive,thusforminginterpersonalandcommunicationobstacles.Toensurethatforeignrelationsandreceptionservicesrunningsmoothly,avoidbrusqueanddiscourteous,itisnecessarytounderstandandknowcountriesetiquettehabitsandcharacteristics.Onlyinthiswaycanwetrulyrespectguests,embodyChina'speople'senthusiasm,hospitableformalstatedemeanor.Etiquetteevidentnationalfeatures,isakindofcultureformsymbolandreflect,peopleintheraisingofthefoot,raisedrhetoricbetweenoftenreflectsindifferentculturalcharacteristics.Differentcultures,socialcommunicationstandardalsovary.TheculturaldifferencesbetweenChineseandwesternetiquetteismainlymanifestedincompetitivewithname,titleandwesterntaboocustomandladiesfirstfiveaspects:1、culturalappellationandcalletiquettedifference.BothChineseandEnglishculturedifferencesonthisproblemisobvious.InChineseculture,appellationisanalytical,andinEnglishculture,appellationisfuzzygeneral.AnEnglishwordcousin,auntandUN-clecancorrespondingeightdifferentChineseappellation.Inthecall,hanculturealwaysthinksmall,youngmustrespecttheold,older.WeoftensaythatLaozhang,Laoli,oldman,woman,oldman,zhangsister-in-law,LiDaMawait,itistoshowrespecttitles.AndinEnglishculture,inadditiontoformaloccasions,"MrAndMrs.Outside,metmissbetweensize,nomattertheagecanallusefirstnames,andthatisakindofclosesaysevenifthegapbetweenagesocalledalsonotbrusqueorimpolitefeeling,withChineseetiquettehabitscompletelyopposite.Chinesechildrenifparents,grandparents,forstudentsinteacherusefirstnames,itmustbeconsideredrude.Inthewest,"old"isweak,old,weak,sayothersassynonymouswith"old"isakindofcontemptrudeperformance.2、thedifference,meetetiquette.TheChinesebodybetinytomeetbeforehandshakeforritual,particularlywithslopingsupervisororVIPshakehandswhentorespectfullyunderloadupperbody,andrespectinthewestthoughtthisactionappeartoodespised.TheChineseoftenliketousebothhandsclenched,lefthandwassevereorcatchorslapeachother'sshoulderorback,evenhugsomeoneelse'snecksaysattitudeenthusiasmandrespecteachother,peoplefromenglish-speakingcountriesgrewdisgust,thinkhetooclose,showedobvioushypocrisyandnottrue.Chineseoftenasked"meetyoueat?Go?Stemwhat?"Thisveryconfused,westerners,sometimesevenanger,thinkinterferenceintheiraffairs.3、differentetiquettediners.Chineseonthetabletogoodornotadviseddishesforcourtesy,advisedguestseatmoredrik,partyshowhosthospitality,westernersneverreluctantlyothers,theguestwiththehostessactionoften.Mastergeneralenquireiftheguestareliketodrinksomething,theguestshouldtruthfullyanswer,theguest,thehostwillnolongerifdeclinedreluctantly.TheChinesewillactivelypourteaoradrink,andcontinuetoaddtea.Westernerstodrinktheforcourtesy,facingthemasterconstantlyaddtea.Oftendisoriented.ButChinesehabitisnotletthecupisvacant,guesthostdoesnotwithanemptycupthatcalledgoodguests.4、taboocustomdifferences.Inthewest,toaskaboutpeople'sage,wages,marriage,loveisbig,privacyisconsideredsacred,andinChina,theseareoftentopicofconversation,peoplewon'tfeelunhappy,ordisgust.Visitingageneralisfirstshouldanappointment,madeasurprisevisittobesocialtaboos.Guestsinvitedtodinner,Englishcountriesontimeorafewminuteslateforcourtesy,arriveearlyisnotonlytoloseZagrebwouldalsoallowthehos。