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1、留学文书案例：大家庭的生活留学文书案例：大家庭的生活 经历经历【精彩范文】【精彩范文】My Upbringing I began living with Grandma at the age of six when my parents were too occupied with work. Moving from a nuclear family of three to a big family of seven was quite overwhelming for me. There are a few things that will always remain true for a
2、big family 一 the never-ending noise, the chattering over dinner, visits by neighbors who bring their homemade specialties, cousins arguing and fighting with each other, and the cat that jumped all over the place. It took me a while to get used to that noise which was actually good for me because it
3、protected me from the loneliness I felt living with my parents as the only child. I also felt supported by Grandma, cousins, uncles, and neighbors in the local community. I could always find an outlet for my emotions, be it positive or negative. The big family upbringing has taught me a lot of thing
4、s over the years 一 respecting the senior, dealing with confrontations, and showing discipline. Living in a big family can sometimes be very frustrating. With so many personalities under the same roof, family members may find it difficult to get on. It required me to effectively communicate my dissat
5、isfactions with them in a way that didn，t hurt their feelings which was really tough at first. My cousins and I often got into fights, but gradually I learned how to embrace the differences and live with them. A big family requires someone who is senior and respectflil to impose rules and maintain h
6、armony. We all share our respect for Grandma. She was bom into a family of nine siblings and gave birth to six children herself - five of them went to college. Grandma is unlike traditional Chinese parents who control every aspect of their children s lives. She often told her neighbors who counseled
7、 her on the recipe of successful parenting: “Keep things simple and let your kids figure out themselves what to do. ” My big family also taught me to put family first. “Wherever you go,” Grandma told me, “you will always trace your root back here, your home and your family. ” At dinner time, my cous
8、ins and I set the table. Grandma was busy preparing food. My uncle came home right before dinner was ready and complained about his job as usual. Everyone sat around the dinner table, talking about jobs, school, and the news. This is the moment I treasure the most because it is warm, comfortable and
9、 gives me a sense of belonging. I am fortunate to have had two types of upbringing - a small family that taught me independence and a big family that taught me the importance of my roots.【我的成长我的成长】在我六岁的时候，因为爸爸妈妈忙于工作，我便到奶奶家生活。从一个三口之家搬到一个七个人 的大家庭对我来说是个巨大的挑战。对一个大家庭来说， 总有些事情是难以避免的，比如无休无 止的噪音，晚餐时天南地北的攀谈，
10、带着自制食品过来串门的邻居，相互争吵打闹的堂兄弟，还 有在屋里跳来跳去的猫咪。我 花了很长时间才适应了大家庭生活的嘈杂，但这对我来说也是件好 事，因为它让我远离了独生子女常有的孤独感。在这个大家庭中，我感受到了来自奶奶、堂兄 弟、 叔叔和邻居们的支持。不管我心情好与不好，我总是可以找个人诉说。在大家庭中生活的几年也教会我很多事情，我懂得要尊敬长辈，学会处理矛盾，学着自我约束。 生活在一个大家庭有的时候也会让我感到苦恼。这么多有 着不同个性的人生活在同一个屋檐下有 的时候会让事情变得很难进行。这就需要我通过有效地沟通，用一种不伤害其他人感情的方式来 表达我的意见 得这很困难。我和堂兄弟经常吵架，
11、 但逐渐地我学会了如何与他们求同存异，和睦相处。一个大家庭需要一个值得尊敬的长辈来制定规矩，维护家庭的和睦。我们全家都很尊敬我的奶 奶。她出生在一个九个孩子的家庭，而她自己也生育了六个 子女，其中的五个都上了大学。奶奶 并不像传统的中国家长那样对子女的任何事情都管得很严。每当邻居来向奶奶取经，奶奶总是告 诉他们“让事情顺其自然发展，让孩子们自己去发现该怎么做”。大家庭的生活也教会我将家庭放在第一位。奶奶告诉我，“不管你到哪去，你的根永远在这里， 在你的家里”。晚饭的时候，我和堂兄弟坐在桌边。奶奶在忙着准备晚饭。叔叔赶在吃饭前回到家里，像往常一 样抱怨着他的工作。每个人都坐在桌边谈论工作，谈论学
12、校生活，谈论今天的新闻。这样的场景 是我最珍视的，因为它给我一种温暖舒服的感觉，它给我一种归属感。我很幸运能够拥有两种成长方式，三口之家教会我独立，而大家庭的生活让我懂得根的重要。【佳文精评佳文精评】这是一篇读来感到很温馨的文章。大家庭的生活经历在现代 社会已经不太常见，这是学生成长过程中的一个特别之处， 而学生也很好地抓住了这一点，将 这个特别的成长经历变 成了一篇细腻感人的文章。文章的成功之处在于重点明确， 细节突出。在大家庭生活的方方面面中，学生选取了最能体 现和三口之家的生活产 生反差的特点嘈杂和冲突 来进行细致的刻画，并且成功地让读者得到和作者同样的感 悟：尽管大家庭的生活有种种困难需要克服，它却给能够给 人一种强烈 的归属感。范文的另一个亮点在于结尾处感性和理性恰到好处的融合。 文章倒数第二段描绘了一幅温馨的场景，呼应开头。同时嘈 杂的生活环境，经过了文章中间部 分的铺垫就不再让人苦 恼，而是满溢着家庭的温暖。而结尾段则进行理性的升华， 点明两种生活方式各有利弊。感性和理性的结合让读者体会 到真情实感的同时，也 会产生一些思考和共鸣。
