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1、揭秘男女提分手时最爱用的理由 2012-11-23 11:11来源： 新浪网编辑：柳雯岚 点击： 1586次 You know when your relationship is not working out. But how do you tell your partner they are dumped? A new poll reveals just how women and men call time on a love affair。 当你们的恋爱关系走不下去的时候你通常会察觉，但你如何告诉你的另一半他/她被甩了呢？最 近有一项调查揭示了男女到底是如何结束恋爱关系的。 Datin
2、g site SeekingA asked 1,000 of its male and female members why and how they would dump a partner. And the results reveal big differences in the sexes over how to give a loved one the push and the reasons they give for the split。 婚恋网站 seekingarrangement 调查了 1000名男性和女性，问他们为什么会如何与伴侣分 手。调查结果显示，在向恋爱对象提出分
3、手的方式和理由上，男人和女人的表现大不相同。 Women are far more concerned about letting a man down gently trying to soften the blow with emotional reasons for the split。女人更倾向于婉转地拒绝男人，使用一些 感性的分手理由来降低对男人的打击。 Going against the stereotype of the commitment-phobe male, the most popular line used by women in ending a relations
4、hip is: I m not ready for commitment yet. The second most popular is: This is going too fast for me. 传统观点可能认为男人提分手最典型的情况是害怕承诺，但其实“ 我还有准备好给你承诺 ” 是女 人在分手时最爱说的理由。女人最爱用的第二个的理由：“ 这对我来说太快了 ” 。 Interestingly, money and the earning power of their partner is far more important to a woman than a man. You don
5、t earn enough money is the third most important reason on the women s list, whereas it doesn t feature at all on the men s list 。 有趣的是， 女人远远比男人更看重金钱，所以伴侣的赚钱能力很重要。“ 你赚钱太少了 ” 成为女人 分手的第三大理由，然而在男人的分手理由列表上，这点根本不重要。 Its not you, its me: Men tend to be less concerned with giving emotional explanations when
6、 they dumped their partner- and are more likely to use technology to let them know。 “ 你没有错， 是我自己的问题 ” ：而男人在甩掉自己的女友时不太会使用感性的理由，而是更可能 用技术性的客观理由让女友知道。 For men, poor sex and lack physical compatibility appears far more important than women for why a relationship has failed。对于男人来讲，性生活不和谐不够契合是导致 两人分手的重要原因
7、，他们比女人更看重这方面。 The third most popular reason for men is they are no longer attracted to their partner and the fourth most popular reason is: We ve lost that sexual spark. 男人的第三大分手理由是他们的伴侣无法再吸引他们，紧接下来的第四大理由为“ 我们已经失去 激情的火花了 ” 。 Both sexes prefer to end a relationship face-to-face but they are also incr
8、easingly using email and text to tell a lover they are history。 大多数的男人和女人更愿意和伴侣面谈分手结束关系，但目前用邮件或短讯的分手形式也在逐渐 增加。 Just over half of women (52 per cent) would meet a partner to say the relationship is over , while fewer than half of men (43 per cent) would break the news in person。 超过一半 (52%) 的女性会向通过一个对
9、象侧面来告知分手，而余下的 43% 女性则会亲自将消息 告诉他人。 Harley Street dating and relationship expert Louise Van Der Velde had this advice: Relationships work when one whole person attracts another whole person。 哈利街的婚姻关系专家路易斯凡德尔维尔德提出一则建议：“ 当一个人的全部特征完全彻底地吸 引另外一个人，两人之间才会迸发爱情” 。 If you re giving 50 per cent, and the other is
10、 giving 50 per cent, it s not going to work. Both of you need to commit to giving the relationship no less than 100 per cent. And I think it s so healthy for people to be honest about their expectations in a relationship。 “ 如果你只给予对方50% ，而对方同样如此，那你们的爱情就不可能持久。你们双方都需要给 予这份感情百分之百的努力。而且我认为， 人们需要诚实地对待自己的感
11、情期望，这样才是健康 状态。 ” SeekingArrangement owner Brandon Wade said increasing numbers of online daters jump quickly from one relationship to the next.Seekingarrangement网站的所有人布 兰登 -韦德指出，现在越来越多的在线约会者会从一个关系中迅速跳到另外一个。 He said: They meet someone they like, have some fun and then quickly moved on. If you are goi
12、ng to be a success dating online you have to learn how to end a relationship without causing too much fuss. The other message to come from this survey is that women like men with money. It has always been so。 他还说： “ 他们遇到自己喜欢的人，一起找点乐子然后迅速离开。如果你打算成为一个成功的网 络恋爱高手， 你必须学会如何结束一段感情同时不会引起太多麻烦。另外这项调查给到我们的一 个信
13、息是：女人喜欢有钱男人。亘古不变。” The top 10 reasons women give for ending it女人最爱用的 10 大分手理由： 1. I am not ready for commitment yet 。我还没有准备好给你承诺。 2. This is going too fast for me。这一切对我来讲太快了！ 3. You don t earn enough money 。你赚太少了。 4. You are not mature enough。你还不成熟。 5. I need to concentrate on my career我想把精力投入到事业上。
14、6. I don t like your friends or family。我不喜欢你的朋友或家人。 7. It s just not working 。就是没感觉。 8. We are not going to get married, so what s the point?将来我们不会结婚的，那现在 这样还有意义吗？ 9. We have not got enough in common。我需要志同道合的伴侣。 10. I don t trust you 。我对你缺少信任。 The top ten reasons men give for ending it男人最爱用的 10 大分手理
15、由： 1. It s just not working 。就是没感觉。 2. I ve met someone else 。我已经有其他女人了。 3. I m not attracted to you any more。你不再吸引我了。 4. We ve lost that sexual spark。我俩之间没有了激情的火花。 5. It s not you, it s me。不是你的错，是我的问题。 6. I need to concentrate on my career。我需要集中精力在事业上。 7. We want different things。我们追求的东西不一样。 8. I don t want to see you any more。我不想再看见你了。 9. I am not ready for commitment yet 。我还没有准备好给你承诺。 10. We have not got enough in common。我需要一个志同道合的伴侣。
