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1、暨南大学华文学院 学 期 论 文（论文题目）Unique art of China Chinese Communication manner课程名称： 政治 专 业： 汉语国际教育硕士 学 号： 1132194033 姓 名: 黄赏月 2011年12月Unique art of China Chinese Communication manner 1132194033 Huang Shang-yueWith the development of Chinese economy and the increase of its compensative power, more and more f
2、oreigners coming from different county come to China. Some of them just want to have a different travel experience to China, some of them want to get a greater self development in China, there are also someone just wanting to know more about China and its people. No matter what reasons for them comi
3、ng to China, every one of them should know some basic things of China. When introduce our country to foreigners, most of our Chinese people would like to introduce the famous seeing sights, such as scenic spots and historical sites、special regions and wherever are representative; some will introduce
4、 our best food 、artworks、festivals and what most of us think particular and important. But in my view, no matter for natives or newcomers, the first thing they should face in their daily life is communication. Therefore, if let me introduce China to them, I prefer to tell them some Chinese manner of
5、 communication firstly. Whats more, Chinese manner of communication is a kind of unique art.1. A brief introduction of Chinese communication manner. In our daily life communication, we will meet the things of “greeting、thanks、apologize、saying goodbye、invitation、 acceptation and rejection ” and so on
6、. Now I will introduce our Chinese communication manner from the following aspects.1.1 Greeting.Chinese people are very kind and hospitable. They will make greeting to others when come across the one they have met or known. But the sentences they use to make greetings are very interesting. They used
7、 to say “hi, where are you going”、“Have you have eaten yet”, instead of “hello ,how are you”. One day you are walking on the road, and coming across some one you have seen before, but you only get very little information about him/her. While, he/she may smile or nod to you, and asked “have you eaten
8、 yet” or” where are you going”. At that time, dont be confused by this question, it does not care for time and places, so does the answer you give. It is just the manner of greeting in China. You can answer to it concretely. In fact, most time you need only to make a brief response, regardless of th
9、ese kinds of questions. You can just answer it like “I am going out”、”yes” or “no”. It is enough.1.2 Thanks and replies for thanks. As we often say that you are living in a large world, you are connected with everyone around directly or indirectly. You need others and others need you too. As for, we
10、 accept others help, and offer help to others at the same time. Then, how to express thanks to the one helped you, and how to make a reply when somebody says thanks to you? In Chinese communication manner, that is a kind of art. First, Chinese people are full of gratefulness inner their mind. They s
11、ay a lot of thanks to others, though, there is just a small thing, even a word that they think useful, and they will say a lot of thanks to the offers. When they get success in some aspect, they often say that it is all thank for the help of elders、superiors and other person they think important. Bu
12、t they seldom express thanks to their family members or relations. Communicating with others and talking about their successes, seldom of them will own their successes to themselves. But you will usually find that their success attained by themselves hardworking, with few or without helpful effect m
13、ade by people they thank for.Second, Chinese are modest. After they helped others, few of them will accept thanks directly. Thank for somebodys help, you always are refused by words, for example, “Its a piece of cake. Dont keep it in mind.” Maybe the thing you did is very important and significant,
14、and their help is a key for your success sometime. To them, its not a thing worthy keeping in mind. So they maybe tell you that the things and the function of the help they offer to you are slight. When you say thanks to someone, if he/she weaken the function and importance of the things, dont feel
15、uneasy, they never really mean that the thing is easy or unimportant, they only want to reply for your thanks with a modest attitude. 1.3 Praise and replies for praise. Making highly praise to others and belittler oneself has become a traditional communication manner of Chinese. Chinese are good at
16、flattering. They flatter others family、skills、new things and what they can see or whatever they can make as a communication focus. Sometimes, its well thing to be praised, however most time what they praise is just as a manner of communication or a skill to build a comfortable communication atmosphere. When you show your
